I dont know about family law here in California, america. Im 21 and 37
weeks pregnant. The baby daddy cheated on me and then he married that
girl after 1 month of our break up. I am going to open a child support.
But he doesnt want it. I told him then help me financially. He never
gave me a dime. I asked him to get me stroller but he said that his wife
wud get it for me. Of course I told him bevermind. I dont want my bby
to use anything that came frm the woman who destroyed my dream to have
complete family. (This girl knew me being preggo but still had a gut to
sleep w my man). This guy owes me 580. 300 coz her mom had a heart
attack. I helped him not coz thats her mom it was bcoz i was mommy girl.
(I ddnt do anything b4 wen my mom died so I just want to pay back by
helping his mom). And I actually told him if u only helping me and
supporting me I wud not ask u to pay the 300 just 280. But I need money.
Wic is not enough. I have somethings to buy also. The money I saved is
for the baby stuff and for after I deliver. So I needed u to pay that
300. 200 coz he owes somebody money for getting a laptop. Then 80 coz i
paid his 80 bills on wifi. He paid the 100 but he was actually being
rude. Hes like that when someone helps him or if he owes something frm
someone. And they fooled me with westerb union numbers. I went to
western union to get the money they sent (I was sick that time. I had
asthma and got worst that time coz I got mad at them for fooling me) I
went there they gave me a wrong number i told them to recheck and send
the # but he said yah thats the right numbers when I went home already
thats when they told me the correct numbers. I ddnt talk to them
anymore. Since after that night my asthma got worst and I told myself I
need a break from their lies and promises and bs. I didnt talk to him
for a month coz I need to concentrate on my baby. But they tot I was
keeping the baby. So I talked to them NICELY. But then again they abused
my kindness and they talk rude to me. They talking lies. The baby daddy
flipping the stories and making me the liar. The wife talking BS to me
calling me names. B*tch. She called me slut and hoodrat coz the day I
found about the cheating of my xbf I said she was a sl*t and h**drat.
Now shes calling me those names. I dont feel sorry for saying those
words coz she deserves those words and thats how I see her. She is the
best definition of a sl*t. I never said those words again after the day I
found our the cheating. I bcame nice and forgave them. But theyre being
rude. They want to file joint custody. Coz they dont want csupport. And
they think its unfair for them that (coz I told them bfore to get me
diapers, bottles with sterilizer and breast pump) they get the expensive
stuff. And y they shud get me a breast pump I shud get for myself they
only getting stuff 4 baby. Thats what they said. I was like how wud that
be unfair for him or them. I got cheated on. I gor lied to, I forgave
and forgave and forgave, I was being nice to both of u. U continue to
abuse my kindness. My life became miserable. I feeling pains coz im
pregnant and I will be in a life and death situation when I have the
baby. Almost all the stuff for baby I got already using my money so how
wud it be unfair. So I will still open csupport. Theyre telling lies now
they said that I tried to kill my bby, like seriously. I want to know
what I can do. Its hard not to think of this stuff especially I know
this man. He told me bfore tgat he was planning to get his 8 yo daughter
from the mom to live w him. I dont want him to just take my daughter. I
admit I dont really know him that much. I dont know what he cud do.
Especially now theyre two im only 1. I dont know law. He cant take the
bby right. For all the things that happened, all the lies hes spreading
and for talking BS of his wife to me I dont he still has the right to
see the baby. Im planning not to show the baby after I have her. But if
obly wants to visit then its fine with me but just dont take the baby.
He in alaska anyway and hell be here January. Ill have the bby December.
And dont let his woman hold the bby. Do u think I wud not get in
trouble or hes not going to sue anything to me when I dont let him see
the baby. For all the things that happened I deserve to be happy and
have a peaceful life with my daughter. I only loved and trusted too
much. And this is what I get in return. Pls. Help me what to do. I want
to fix the problem now or know my next step bfore they do a step to put
me down. I never lied. I became too nice to them. They continue to
bother my pregnancy. And let me add. B4 when I was still with him he
cheated on me for the 2nd time and u had spotting. And then Nov 23 the
wife texted me non stop early in the morning talking BS calling me
names. And that time I went to hospital coz theres something wrong with
mycervix now im ok. But I hate that they causing me pains and makes me
feel stress. I dont want to stress out anymore but I just want to
Title : I dont know about family law here in California
Description : I dont know about family law here in California, america. Im 21 and 37 weeks pregnant. The baby daddy cheated on me and then he married tha...